3 Things To Remember When You Feel Defeated | guest post by Cassidy Poe|


In the beginning of February, I reached out to a blogging group that I am a part of on Facebook, searching for guest posters for the this month. There was just enough response for one each week and this week, I am just so excited about. My hope is that you young people will be encouraged here, more directly.


I want to introduce Cassidy to you, she has an incredible story to share with us that holds a deeply significant outcome:

I was 14 when my life changed forever.


When I was in the ninth grade, I began having episodes where I collapse and am left with extreme muscle weakness in my arms and legs. Sometimes these episodes only last 30 minutes. At my worst, this temporary paralysis continued for an entire week. During this week, I would get out of the hospital bed and walk a few steps before collapsing.

Because of my new illness, I had to give up cheerleading, band, clubs, and I missed half my Junior and Senior years of high school. I didn't go on my senior trips or get a job and I spent most of my days at home by myself. Doctors eventually told my parents to pull me out of school and not let me out of bed more than 45 minutes at a time. They had no answers, only shots in the dark. My circumstance seemed impossible.

At the beginning of my freshman year, I was presented with the opportunity to go to Jamaica on a mission trip. I prayed and discerned that the Lord would have me go and then raised all my support. One month before I was to leave on this exciting adventure, I had my first episode.

I was absolutely positive that my parents would not let me go. But in faith, they let me leave and I have never been the same. I fell in love with the vibrant people, jerk chicken, and the steady rumble of reggae and insect choirs humming through the nighttime mountain air.

It was on this beautiful little island where I learned that God is my strength. It blew my mind that God could take a little girl who basically becomes randomly paralyzed, place her in a foreign country and use her to tell others that our God is the God of the impossible.

I am now 20 years old and have served in Jamaica 9 times. That is 9 times after I developed this illness. I never in a million years expected my life to be changed in such a dramatic way when I landed at the airport in Montego Bay for the first time.

You and I may not have the same struggle. Maybe you come from a broken home. Lost someone you loved. Maybe you have been abused or abandoned. Maybe you feel unlovable because of something that has happened to you. Maybe your heart is broken today. Or maybe you feel absolutely alone. While I cannot relate to all of these, there are some things that I have learned during my illness that I think can apply to whatever situation you are going through today.



1. Your circumstance does not define you


 Right now you might be thinking, "But Cassidy, you do not know what I've done." Or "You don't know what they did to me." And you are absolutely right. I don't know what you are going through, what you may have done or what has been done to you. But I don't need to. Why? Because I know what HE did. God loves us so much that He allowed Jesus to come, die and rise from the grave so that you may no longer be a slave to sin and fear. When He died, He purchased your redemption. As recipients of His grace, Christ becomes our identity and His sacrifice becomes the very thing by which we are defined.

Because Christ is now our identity, everything that is true of Him becomes true of us. That means we become Holy. Righteous. Redeemed. Worthy. Made new. Co-heirs. When God sees us, He sees His son. Your circumstance is not the thing that defines you. Jesus is. This is such a beautifully freeing thing to grasp!

2. God can still use you


One thing that took me forever was realizing that God could still use me. I went through a period of time where I felt inadequate and inconvenient. I felt like a burden. Deep down, I believed that I was unworthy of love and normal relationships because of my illness. This line of thinking is so far from the truth and I am so thankful that God gave me His perspective.

You see, God used Moses, a murderer, to deliver His people from bondage. God used David, an adulterer, to usher in the Messiah. God used Abraham, a liar, and made Him the father of many nations. God used Ruth, a grieving widow. He used Mary Magdalene, a prostitute and Jonah, who ran away from God’s calling. God used Timothy, who had ulcers and Thomas, who doubted.

These great heroes of the faith all have something in common: they are imperfect people loved by a gracious God. We see God’s promise from Philippians 1:6 come to life in the lives of these people. Philippians 1:6 (ESV) says, “And I am sure of this, that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ”. Their stories didn’t end with their sin or their weaknesses. Their stories ended with how God decided to move in mighty ways.

A verse that I think ties in beautifully with this one is 2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV) which says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, He is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come”. We are no longer bound to our sin. He has promised that if you are found in Christ, you are a NEW CREATION. Yes, you will still sin and have trials, but God is within you.  And He who began that good work in you has promised to bring it to completion! He is not done with your story. In fact, I would argue that He is only just beginning.

3. Walk in Victory


 Many of us spend a great deal of time walking around in defeat. I know I did. We are defeated by our choices or defeated by our circumstances. Often times, we walk around carrying the heavy weight of guilt or shame. But let me tell you a secret…you do not need to. When Jesus died and rose from the grave, He purchased all that guilt, shame, and defeat and bore it upon His shoulders. He did this so that we might know the power of His resurrection. He did this so we can have relationship with the Father.

We no longer have to walk in the guilt, the shame, the defeat, and the brokenness. These things do not define us anymore! We can walk in victory because of who our God is! He is able. He is strong. He is powerful and mighty and He loves you enough to not leave you defeated and alone. When you surrender your defeat up to God, I promise that He will replace it with His peace and victory. You may have to surrender it up over and over again, but it’s worth it. He is worth it.

One thing that I love about our God is that He is a creator. He can create stars, individual snowflakes, a new masterpiece in the sky every morning and every evening, and millions and millions of different people. I know that the same God can create a new work in your circumstance today.

Be Encouraged. Your story is not finished yet.













Hey there, my name is Cassidy! I am a 20-year-old girl with a passion for Jesus, missions, and encouraging others with the Gospel. It is my desire that my story would encourage you in whatever circumstance you find yourself in today.

You can read more about Cassidy's story on her blog, www.cassidysheart.com              





Please head over and check out Cassidy's blog, she has so many good things to share with young people, I am so excited to have connected with her!!!



16 comments

  1. Amen! God can definitely still use you! I've seen it so many times in life and in the Bible. He uses those that may feel they are the hardest to use! It's so beautiful!

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    1. Yes! <3 So thankful that Cassidy is willing to open up and share her struggles. :)

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    2. Hi!
      I am thankful we serve a God who likes to use the weak. He redeems and gives His strength! What a wonderful thing!

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  2. So glad you took the time to write this out, we could all use these reminders because in today's world its so easy to get "down" with all the chaos. Thanks for sharing! :)

    XOXO, LJ
    www.onceortwiceblog.com

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    1. Isn't it a great testimony?! I'm so thankful Cassidy is brave enough to share her story.

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    2. Hi Lauren!
      Thank you so much for the kind words! I am thankful we serve a God who likes to use the weak!

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  3. This is such an awesome testimony!! God can use all our tests for testimonies. Allowing only God to define you is so important in living the life He has called us to live.

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    1. Yes, so important. It's easy to measure success when it's God's success in our lives that we are measuring!!! :)

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    2. Hi Ayanna!
      Thank you so much for the kind words<3 One thing I love about our God is that He redeems and He likes making new and beautiful things from our brokenness. I am thankful this could encourage your heart!

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  4. Yes! Yes! Yes. Thank you for sharing your testimony and encouraging us. :)

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    1. Thanks for stopping by, I'm so thankful that you were blessed by Cassidy's testimony!

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    2. Hi Jessica!
      I love sharing all that god has done in my life. I am glad this could encourage you!

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  5. Definitely great tips for overcoming defeat. I am glad that you are doing well and were able to thrive despite your health circumstance.

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    1. Isn't that just beautiful? Cassidy's faith is so encouraging!!!

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  6. Amen! Our limitations are not limitations to God!

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    1. Hi Courtney!
      Yes! Yes! Yes! I could not have said it any better<3

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